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Cristina Carmona Aliaga's avatar

What an interesting read, Monica. There’s so much that could be said about the concept of being a foreigner and I guess when you’re in a place that is not the one you were born there’ll always be that perception from others, especially if there’s a hint of an accent when speaking the language. Back home, until very recently, if someone from a nearby town came to live to our town they were considered “forasteros” even though they came from 10 km away!!! This always puzzled me as in rural Spain there is a very strong connection between people and the land. In London is quite fascinating how you can forget you’re a foreigner until you are among British people, who tend to remark your accent, where you are from and things other foreigners usually never mention that much. So yes, you can be both integrated in the city and blend in its diversity but equally made feel that you’re not really from here the moment you open your mouth 😂

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John Lovie's avatar

Well this was timely! I'm a Brit living in the US now with dual citizenship. I've been here almost 40 years and I must confess I can go weeks without thinking about it. Of course, Britain is one of the favored countries, and not one of Trump's "shithole" countries.

I recently returned from a trip to the Santa Fe area in New Mexico, where Spanish is almost as common as English, cars with Mexican license plates are seen on the street, and there's a large Native American presence. The different ethnic groups seem to mostly get along. There seems to be a general awareness that the Native Americans have been there thousands of years, the Spanish hundreds (NM was part of Mexico longer then it's been part of the US), and white folks just a couple of hundred years. White people are the immigrants. While all of that is true thoughout the Southwest, and as far as Native Americans are concerned, throughout the country, I don't see it recognized statewide anywhere else except Hawaii. May we all become more aware.

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